Or to help a friend that is going through a tough situation.

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All of us have some down moments: going through a break-up, losing someone, having a bad work-life balance, etc. These are quite normal situations but can be difficult to overcome. Most people try to rely on meditation or self-help books to relax and get through these problems.

I have read many self-help books and, in my experience, most of them give you answers but not many of them gives you questions to ask yourself.

“All violence is the result of people tricking themselves into believing that their pain derives from other people and that consequently those people deserve to be…

Platforms that will help you understand your clients' behaviour online


Marketing is becoming a battle based on information than on sales power

— Philip Kotler

The first step in any Marketing plan is to understand your market: How much money is raised in the whole market and what's your market share? Who are your biggest competitors? What are they offering to their users? What are your customer needs and their pain points?

The purpose of this research is to detect the oportunities and risks in your market. This knowledge is crucial to shape your product and attract new customers while retaining current users.

Thre tools you need to know are:

Improve your communication.

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Have you ever given feedback just to see the other person does not follow it? When we give feedback, we want to help a person telling them what’s good and what’s wrong. But, if you don’t say it properly, mixing things up, the other person may get a different meaning of that message.

Here are 3 tips to get your message through.

Tip 1: Be clear about your goals

Whenever we start a meeting or a new activity, the first step is to know what is the PURPOSE of it.

Without a clear purpose, coach and coachee may have two different objectives in their minds. Thus, communication…

How payment companies regulate the porn industry

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Film is a reflection of society, both present and past. […] Movies are a form of communication and that communication, those stories, come from societies not just where society is presently and what it’s doing now but where society has been.

— Tom Sherak

Mainstream porn is often criticized because it shows unreal sex scenes: no body hair, no stretch marks, no female orgasms, vulvas with small labia, etc. While some people may think it is due to most directors being men, the fact is that many laws have been promoting misogyny in porn.

Actually, showing a person with a…

The clitoris throughout history

Author’s own image

The clitoris has always been ignored in medical books. That is why many people have claimed to discover it several times through history.

The First Discovery

The first academic to study the clitoris was Matteo Realdo Colombo in 1559. In his book “De Re Anatomica”, he described it as the women’s organ for pleasure. Similar to the penis in men.

Two years later, Gabriele Falopio claimed again that he was the first to discover the clitoris in his book “Observationes Anatomicae”.

This was a great time for the clitoris: people were considering it to be an organ… but masturbation was still forbidden and…

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Did you send nudes these past weeks? Some hot pictures to make your partner beg for your body? Here are some tips you may find useful.

It’s amazing that you want to give a nude as a gift to the person you are dating. The first thing you need to keep in mind is that, while that person may be nice and honest, the Internet is not a place you should trust.


I will give you some tips at the end of the article. But first, you need to ask yourself some questions:

What if the other person shares the picture with their friends?

According to The Economist, “Things go wrong when teenagers pressure and coerce others, most often girls and younger teenagers, to send nude…

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Engineers are trying to build cheap medical machines. This is how they are doing it and how you can contribute to stopping Coronavirus.

It is no secret that hospitals do not have enough material like ventilators or masks.

What were lacking [in Italy] were ventilators to go with the other equipment. But then the Red Cross offered 30. “When at 10pm, the new came through of those 30 ventilators I almost wept”, said Mr Gallera

—The Economist, “The race against time”

Many teams around the world are creating material for Hospitals, so they can be better equipped. Keep reading to see which objects are. You will be able to print them yourself by the end of the article.


Doctors are increasingly anxious that…


Uncertainty, a non-existent cure, mayhem, etc many similitudes as well as differences between this hypothetical zombie virus and the new coronavirus. But which one is deadlier?

Many people are comparing this pandemic to movies like Zombieland or World War Z… but is it a fair comparison? Continue reading to know it.

Basic comparison

Let's start by comparing several features for both viruses (table 1).

A comic about an exaggerated capitalist that is…


Por el Clítoris

(Link to English version)

¿Tratamos a los Clítoris como a cualquier otro órgano? Si piensas que si, cometerás el mismo error que yo. Esa es la principal trama de esta historia. Mi oscuridad y vergüenza. Me cuesta escribir estar historia porque es algo de lo que no me siento orgullose. Pero la única forma de ser feliz es mirándonos al espejo y aprender a amar lo que vemos.

Yo nací siendo un Clítoris. Un Clítoris feliz diría, porque me encantaba el cuerpo en el que estaba. Ese cuerpo pertenecía a Sammy. Sammy tenía unos Músculos fuertes para jugar a fútbol…

Maria Valcam

Engineer studying an MBA. I am interested in Business, Sexology, and Engineering. Website: https://marvalero.github.io/Oohmyclit/english

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